Life update

Damn, it has been a while and the year is already coming to an end.

I haven’t posted anything since August, wow. This year went pretty quick.

Peak.

I’m so lazy which is getting to a habit and that must change as soon as possible but to be honest with you guys I lost motivation. In these last months, I did a lot of self-reflection and I was working on myself like always and I will continue doing it because you can never stop working on yourself. A lot happened, and there would be no point in listing up all these things. All can say right now is that I’m currently working on something big. I learned that publishing and telling people your plans is one of the biggest mistakes you can ever make because from that point on you subconsciously started a countdown without even noticing. People will start expecting things and they will talk, talk and talk. I mean that is what people are at best anyway. People are not capable of minding their own business.

You u lot need to chill haha. Because I really don’t like people but I like meeting new people. Y’all see the paradox here? Y’all see how weird I am?

This year was amazing. I made a lot of memories, starting with the Ghana Party in the Park. I have never been to a festival before so going to an afrobeat one was one of the best decisions I have ever made. I’m a big fan of afrobeat and dancing. Chill oo, because I know I’m not the best dancer. I will be going to so many other concerts, festivals etc. but having that one as a starter was great. Unfortunately , some of my closest peeps (peopledem = friends) couldn’t join me but soon we will be reunited again. Always look at the positive aspects a year gave you. I saw my family, they came to visit me. I have never experienced this sort of happiness in my entire life. I came to realise that my family is my ride or die.

• Sharing your future steps is one of the worst mistake you can ever make. There are certain things you just share with God and yourself. Something like bad eyes exist, so watch out. People that got bad eyes are the people that don’t like seeing you succeeding, it hurts their spirit. Neither do they like if any good thing happen to you.These so-called bad eyes could be among your closest friends or even family members. You never know. The only one that can reveal them is God because it ain't a physical battle but a spiritual one.

I want to start posting something every second month. Starting in January. Guy's don’t sleep on me great things are on their way. I trust in the Lord. I'm not some rich bouije black woman. I’m still very young.

I always need to remind myself that all the people I’m looking up to are first of all older than me, have their degree and have already put in the work.

They worked hard to get to the point they are in now, some added God to their journey others believed in their self.

I’m saying y’all should not rush to look all boujijee, to go travel everywhere and to hang out with celebs. Relax mate.

If you can't afford it or you live under some circumstances, chill out your time will come, and you will shine like no one else.

I know, I know, I know… Waiting can be so annoying. Sadly, I must admit that but it's gonna be aight.

They are so many things I have not done but I know, everything has its own time and pace.

Patience.

2019 is just another year to make new memories and time to improve on yourself.

Set goals, aim high and achieve baby.